So yesterday was national coming out day. I found this out after I posted yesterday's blog. I was on twitter and someone I follow mentioned it. Plus it was a trending topic. Honestly I had mixed feelings about that. I understand what was meant by a National Coming Out Day. It was basically letting those out there know that it's ok and that many others are doing it with you. The thing about the gay community is that it is in fact a community. It is something that is very far reaching. It's not just a national thing, but an international thing. It reaches across all ages, races, religions, etc. So it is a good way to welcome new members. On the other hand. Just because it's a national day doesn't mean that everyone should rush out there and do it. Coming out is a very personal thing. No two families really handle it the same. It's not something that you can look at the calendar and say ok today is the day. I sadly know a coming out horror story. There was a student at my high school. I heard about it through a teacher because I had already graduated. Well he was basically an excellent student. Straight A's and very much involved in the school community. Well his parents find out he's gay, yank him out of the school mid-semester and throw him in one of those pray the gay away schools. They were going to react that way no matter what day the calendar shows. If he had been able to come out later in life it would have been a different story. I can only imagine the horrors he had to endure. I can't imagine he would ever truly forgive his parents for it. So it's a wash for me. In theory it's a great thing for everyone to get together and come out, but at the same time it is a very personal thing. It can't be forced on someone. When it does crap happens. When it can happen naturally the person coming out has a little bit more freedom and control of the situation. I'm not ready to come out to my parents yet because I'm still a bit dependent on them. I want to be completely self reliant when I do it. That way if they want to stay in contact they can, but they aren't forced too and I'm not in a situation where I'm wondering how am I going to handle this emergency.
This morning I had a hookup and we were discussing what we like. Well I mentioned I like porn and he said the same. So I said one of my favorite parts of any scene is when two guys are fucking and one plays with the other's chest. Just like in this picture. I'm very much a chest guy (as this blog has shown and the guy this morning found out).
This picture makes me think of pretty much just one thing. That this guy is a douche. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. I base that on the fact that looks like he is either in a dorm or a locker room. There is a guy behind him. Why can't the guy take the picture. Why do you have to do the mirror shot? It tells me you are very into your own body and probably one of those guys that hogs the mirror in the gym. I've seen way too many of these guys at my gym. I call it like I see it.
I saw this image and just died. That is the legendary Casey Williams. Seemed like he retired a few years back. Well this looks like a fairly recent image of him. That means that he very well could be doing porn again. Well at least one more. I have such a boner for him. He's had this amazing body forever and just the way he smiles. Be still my beating heart. Oh and btw I'm going back to posting 3 pictures again. I'm all caught up again on pictures. Hopefully I don't get backlogged like that again.
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