Porn is to blame

I was watching some porn the other day and I saw two guys kissing. Well they were attempting to kiss I think. Both guys had their mouths wide open and their tongues hanging out. Ok that's not sexy. Least not in my book. When you kiss your lips make contact with other lips and if there is any tongue then you do it while making lip contact. My boyfriend has this terrible habit of doing the mouth open thing. He can kiss normally then when we get into it he has his mouth all open and tongue hanging out. That is not my idea of sexy. I think porn is to blame for this, because it's not just my boyfriend. There were other guys I kissed that did this. My ex was guilty of this. There were two guys I know that were great kisses. Both guys know how to get me going. See for me a very sensual kiss really gets my motor going. I love kissing. So then I was going through some of my porn on my computer and some of the clips I call the better clips have guys kissing normally. They aren't standing there, mouth open, and tongues flinging at each other. I think it's one reason why I didn't warm up to my boyfriend right away. He's gotten better, but still does that weird kissing thing. I want to say something, but you know how guys are. We know how to do everything and we are good at everything. There are things I'm sure I'm not as good at as I think I am, but I want to fix this kissing thing, but again know there is no way to tell someone they are a bad kisser.