I was talking to my friend today and we got onto the subject of dating. Not each other, but just the idea in general. I don't know how the train of the conversation went, but basically it ended up talking about how you don't date without having sex first. At first I was going to object, but honestly I had to agree. It seems like the only way to find a possible date is to get the sex out of the way first. I'm not trying to sound shallow or stereotype, but it does seem to be the way gay men are moving towards. When you think about it, it does make sense. If you get the sex out of the way right off the bat you'll know if you are sexually compatible. In theory you will be having it several times at least. Let's say you find the perfect guy in every way then you have sex and it's just horrible. You may not want to admit it, but it would affect the relationship. You of course would try again, but what if it doesn't get better? I think what will happen is what happened between me and my ex. You slowly drift apart because the sexual attraction doesn't get addressed enough. Plus most guys will reveal their true self after sex. It's like all the defenses are gone. Obviously if he just fucks and leaves quick you know he was never really boyfriend material. If he stays and cuddles and talks and kisses you get the impression that he is boyfriend material. So we talked more and I ended up giving him advice. It's weird because he's older and has been dating longer than I have been alive. I just now realized how young I am and how old he is because that statement is true. Anyway I mentioned if you just give a blowjob it leaves them wanting more. So there is a better chance that they will come around again. Least for most guys. Some will say oh he's just a tease and move on. Then of course you have to pay attention to how they kiss. Brock is an amazing kisser. When he kisses you (least with me) you get a since of passion and intensity. And I also got this since of longing. Like he had been waiting for me. My ex kissed terrible. It would start of ok, then he would just open his mouth and engulf your face. Was a real turn off. If a guy doesn't kiss then he doesn't want intimacy and is only good for a booty call. Even the action during things can tell you a lot. If he just lays back while you give him a blowjob or even during anal then that's how he approaches things. He's one of those guys that doesn't feel the need to try. If he bucks, talks dirty, rubs your head, rubs your chest, pulls you up for a kiss, and of course reciprocates than you are looking at someone that will potentially be very passionate in a relationship and life. Least that's how I see it. There of course can be great lays that do all that, but have no interest in getting a boyfriend. I'll have to ask Brock his opinion on that. He's actually been in 2 relationships before me...holy crap I just now realized that. This will be both of our third relationships. Well not counting his ex wife. That's another long story.
I look at this guy and just think, there are guys out there that would never give him the time of day. The guy is in great shape, but because there is some gray here and there they won't touch him. I see this guy and I see a guy that is taking care of himself. And not only that, but his testosterone is higher than some of the other guys in his age group. That means he's probably hornier than other guys. That means the sex would be amazing. Yet others won't see it. Hope I look nearly that good once I pass 65. Looking at my dad and grandfather that might be a possibility if I keep an active life style.
I must say the guy who did Monster Mike's back tattoo has gotten a lot of exposure. The thing about tattoos is they are meant to be scene. That's kinda why they are done. I just wonder if there are some Tattooists (Tattoo artist)who do artwork for porn stars tell people. I mean it would go to the credibility of their work.
I can't help, but notice the guy on the left hand side. His bicep looks huge. Don't know if it's the shadow or what. Just looks like it goes so far up his forearm. I know with all that is going on in the photo it's weird for me to focus on the one guy's arm, but it drew my attention.
As I've said and will say many times. I love bodybuilders with glasses. It's just that it breaks a norm. Even today society associates glasses with nerds and/or flaws. Your vision is not perfect or great so you now wear glasses. Then you have a body that is going to go out on stage and be judged on perfection. There is also that stereotype that bodybuilders are dumb. So it creates this paradox which interests me. Wouldn't mind being in a foursome with all these guys.
I look at this guy and just think, there are guys out there that would never give him the time of day. The guy is in great shape, but because there is some gray here and there they won't touch him. I see this guy and I see a guy that is taking care of himself. And not only that, but his testosterone is higher than some of the other guys in his age group. That means he's probably hornier than other guys. That means the sex would be amazing. Yet others won't see it. Hope I look nearly that good once I pass 65. Looking at my dad and grandfather that might be a possibility if I keep an active life style.
I must say the guy who did Monster Mike's back tattoo has gotten a lot of exposure. The thing about tattoos is they are meant to be scene. That's kinda why they are done. I just wonder if there are some Tattooists (Tattoo artist)who do artwork for porn stars tell people. I mean it would go to the credibility of their work.
I can't help, but notice the guy on the left hand side. His bicep looks huge. Don't know if it's the shadow or what. Just looks like it goes so far up his forearm. I know with all that is going on in the photo it's weird for me to focus on the one guy's arm, but it drew my attention.
As I've said and will say many times. I love bodybuilders with glasses. It's just that it breaks a norm. Even today society associates glasses with nerds and/or flaws. Your vision is not perfect or great so you now wear glasses. Then you have a body that is going to go out on stage and be judged on perfection. There is also that stereotype that bodybuilders are dumb. So it creates this paradox which interests me. Wouldn't mind being in a foursome with all these guys.
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