Monday, May 13, 2013

How much is too much

Before I get to the hart of the reason for that title I have a quick story that kinda falls under the title. So I was talking to this guy on bear and he asked for my number. I kinda avoided it for awhile, but figured he'd text me here or there and no harm no foul. Well I gave it to him and for like a week straight the guy has called me all the time. I told him when I worked and he'd call anyway. So last Friday he again called when I was working. I got off work early and called him back. Note that he had left a message saying call him back. So I call him back and it was the most awkward phone conversation I have ever had. It just didn't go anywhere besides hello. He seemed disconnected and I know I certainly was. For a guy that was so desperate to get me on the phone you'd think that when we did finally get to talk he'd try a little harder. He called a few times after that, but hasn't called me recently. Knock on wood for that.
Now onto what I really wanted to talk about. I was watching porn this morning (shocking I know) and it got me thinking. Where is that line on how verbal a guy should be in bed? I think it's kinda like the line between confidence and arrogance. Also think it depends on what's being said or the sound that's being made. For instance I have trouble watching a majority of porn from Japan. It has nothing to do with the masking or the fact I can't understand what they are saying. It's because a lot of them sound like they are in pain which is a major turn off for me. I've also been turned off by a porno where a bottom was just too vocal with all his moaning. Then there are times when I wish the top or bottom spoke more. It's just this really fine line. I know in bed I tend to be a lot more quiet. My mouth is usually too busy to talk. Plus I usually just do what I want. If I want a guy to flip over I'll usually flip him over. Well I'll try to. At 5' 6" 174ish pounds most guys out weigh me. That's pretty much the only time I talk. It's never been something that guys have called me out for, but I wonder. I know when I was a bottom I think I was a lot more vocal. That's probably because my mouth was rarely busy. As a top I'm licking on nips or kissing as I'm fucking or I'm nibbling on the ear. Anyway I'm sure the line for every guys is different. Also depends on the guy they are with I'm sure.
 I've seen this guy a lot in porn recently, but I don't know his name. I know he's probably too old for some guy's tastes because of the gray beard, but he's in good shape. Not to mention the hair on his body isn't gray so he shouldn't be that old. Plus the dude knows how to fuck and/or be fucked. I'd like a chance at him.
 That look right there would kinda melt me. Don't have to know what he's thinking because he's dick is saying it for him. Well now I'm hard.
 I love this position. In porn it gets me very hot, and in real life it's hard for me not to cum. I don't know what specifically I like about it, but I just do. Especially when a top picks up the bottom from this position to move in around or fuck hims tanding.
What is there not to like about this picture. Answer there is nothing. Cute smug smile, great body, jockstrap, a tattoo, body hair. Yeah this guy makes me want to do very very  bad things to him.

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