Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Backseat drivers

One of the most annoying things is a backseat driver. You know the guys or girls that can't just be a passenger. They have to alert you towards everything. You don't have enough room to merge. You know we have to be in the left lane. You're going too fast. You're going too slow. It's pretty annoying. Well I think something far more annoying is when it comes to relationships. Those people that insist on telling you how to be in your relationship. What brought this up is that Ned was over on Sunday showing us slideshows of him and his boyfriend from when they went to Iceland. With 500-600 photos mind you. We had started it Saturday, but Ted had to go do some stuff so we had to finish up the rest later. Well Ned's boyfriend split up the photos into a "safe for work" and a "for friends" category. The "safe for work" was just images of Ned and a few of his boyfriend, but photos that wouldn't convey they are a couple since he's not out at work. Just out to a few people. The other is more intimate shots. Well we got talking and Ned mentioned that someone said that if he didn't come out he was going to lose his boyfriend. Which then prompted Ted to ask a bunch of questions about if he's out and is he ok with it and blah blah blah. Well what got me was that someone who doesn't really know them would think that Ned is in any danger of losing his boyfriend. It's pretty easy to see they are happy together and they are plenty out when they are in the right company. I just find it funny that everyone is suddenly an expert in relationships whenever it comes to other people's relationships. Yeah we all have opinions, but doesn't mean we know how things should go for a couple that we don't see behind closed doors. Hell I don't plan on being one of those super out there couples. I can't stand straight or gay couples that do that. Now when I'm alone with the guy or we are in the correct company I'll be more affectionate, but doesn't mean I should be told to be that way all the time. Every guy is different and every relationship is different just like every town is different. There is no blanket way of how a couple should behave with each other let alone in public.
 A lot of guys focus on the front of their body for obvious reasons, but there is real beauty in a strong back side. If you've ever been with a guy with a very muscular back you know what I'm talking about. Top or bottom it's fun to rub your dick on a guys muscular ass while you kiss his strong back.
 I'm always amazed at bodybuilders. Not so much because of the physique...ok the physique is a main reason, but another reason is the fact that they are going on stage in nothing but posers. And all that has to happen is they fall just a little too far or just be a little too loose and everyone sees what you're packing. This guy is wearing some pretty skimpy posers.
 Guys always look more buff when they are looking down at you. Least I think so. Might explain one reason why I like photos angled up. That and they just look all the more butch.
The guy in the back is Vinnie D'Angelo. I just wonder where and when was this taken. I'd like to think early in his career because he now has tats. And wonder what the medal is for. This picture just makes me so curious.

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