Wednesday, December 14, 2011

More stuff I don't get

I was talking to one of my friends yesterday because he was worried he ruined a friendship. I asked for details. He said he made a move on one of his straight friends. Basically they were drinking he kept touching him and gave him a back rub and the guy said that it's not going to happen. So he's worried that the friendship is ruined. Well I asked for more details. Turns out he has not even been trying to hide his crush for the guy. Meaning his straight friend is quite aware that he's gay and has clearly no interest in seeing what it's like to be with a guy. This is sadly not the first straight guy he's fallen for. So I point out that why are you even trying with these guys. A crush is one thing. We can't help crushes. Pursuing it is another. He said well you never know when the breaking point is. It's not worth it unless you try. With that being said I pretty much tore into him. The reason being is why put yourself through it. I'm a guy that tries to be as logical as possible. A straight guy might do something with another guy if the circumstances are right. And that is a big might. So why put all this time and effort into finding this breaking point that may not exist or if it does they won't let on. As I've said before 10% of guys are truly straight, 10% are truly gay and the rest of us fall somewhere in between. This guy was clearly one of those 10% guys. If drunk he still wouldn't do anything with a guy then their is no interest. And sadly it's not just my friend. The guy that ims me is the same way. He has this thing with straight guys. He only wants to be around them, yet also wants to be in a relationship. I think it boils down to a problem with the gay community in itself. We still stereotype each other. If you want to say you are butch in a profile you say that you are straight acting. Why is it that if you are butch and masculine you are "straight acting". Why can't you say you are butch? To me straight acting means when you are with a group of guys you pretend to be interested in girls. I don't consider myself straight acting. Now people have assumed I'm straight and that's their choice. I personally am interested in guys that are guys. They don't have to be straight acting. If a guy is butch and secure in his masculinity he turns my head. These are guys like Rocky LaBarre, Samuel Colt, Adam Russo, and Spencer Reed. These are guys that are gay and know they are. They don't hide it, yet I'd never demean them by saying they are straight acting. They are butch masculine men. Not every straight guy is like they are. There are nerdy straight guys, fat straight guys, and just flat out average straight guys. So think about it next time you refer to yourself or someone else as straight acting. Unless you truly mean that in front of others you pretend to be interested in women.
Al Parker was such a legend when it came to gay porn. There were so many things he did that no one has since done. What guy do you know that can fuck himself with his own balls? Or how about a guy that can actually wrap his dick and balls in such a way that it's something fuckable. Basically a pussy with a dick and balls. He just oozed sexy. And he wasn't overly muscular or anything. He was just a guy secure in his manhood. Did things outside the box. Just wonder what it would be like to be rimmed by that big beard.
I seriously can't get enough of cowboys. Just something about a guy that works with his hands that's a turn on for me. And whenever I picture a cowboy, I picture a guy with a body chiseled from hard work. A guy that isn't afraid to get dirty.
Ah Nick Harmon. A guy that was so popular then disappeared almost when he started doing fetish stuff. I still wonder what he's up to. I think he has a cam site now. Just saw this photo of him and had to snatch it up. Trying to think if he ever bottomed on camera and I don't think he did which kinda makes this photo a bit more special. Don't think he was a fan of showing off his asshole. Remember a lot of this knowledge comes from what I could remember from his days of doing a lot of porn.
If it's not cowboys it's cops. This has porn scene written all over it. Just looks like something you'd only see in porn. A cop coming across two guys in a shower and not arresting them. Then again maybe this is more common than we realize. I've also gotten into liking to suck guys off with their jeans on. Don't know why really. Just seems like the dick stands out more then.

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