Last night I was watching the Soup on E! network. If you aren't familiar with the Soup, basically it's a clip show that takes different segments of shows from the week and presents them in a funny way. One thing that caught my attention was from a show on VH1 called I'm Married to A.... This week that show followed a woman married to a gay porn star. If you are asking which one the answer would be Reese Rideout or Nick. They also showed a clip of it on Chelsea Lately. The opinion I have regarding that are wide and varied. I guess I'll go with my initial thought. As mean as it is, what I first thought was that his wife was pretty unattractive. I mean she looked like his beard. She looks like she's a woman that puts up with him doing gay porn because she doesn't have any other option. Like I said it's mean and I know it, but it's what I thought. I mean she looked uncomfortable even discussing it in front of the cameras. He on the other hand seemed to be flaunting it. I also heard (in the clips) this justification for doing it in his head. One being that he's providing a lifestyle. Which lead to my other thought.
How much is this guy making off of pretending he's gay and doing it with dudes. Then again I guess I shouldn't be shocked. Who cares about the personality if the body is right? I will admit that I can get turned off very quickly by the personality someone presents. The sad thing is that him appearing on that show won't put a dent in how much he makes or his fan base. Just goes to show gay porn is truly being taken over by the gay for pay guys. The ironic thing is that when Jack Wrangler got married gay men were so outraged that tons of gay porn stores refused to sell anything he was in. If that was to happen now he'd probably become more popular. What does that say about us gay men?
Then to play devil's advocate I think why am I getting so upset. This is kinda a double standard. If a straight woman does lesbian porn it's no big deal. Hell it seems like it's every straight guy's fantasy to have two women go at it in front of him. So what is the difference with a straight guy doing it. I guess it is again because of society. I know I've grown up watching shows that mention guys wanting to see girls go at it or that a threesome of two girls and one guy is way better than 2 guys and one girl.
Hard to believe all these thoughts came from clips of a show. Going to show my head is back into full swing. I also signed back up for manhunt. I'm just going to be really picky about who I talk to. Sadly I already have a couple that lives an hour away interested in me. They would just love to meet me. Which is funny cause I totally said one on one in my profile. I sent two e-mails to two different guys and got one back. It's a start. Then out of the blue I got quite an e-mail from this bottom guy. It said this:
Shuld come to marshfield some time and make me ur piss and cum dump pig! Callin me. Bitch... cunt...faggot.. wutever and shoot ur loads down my throat and in my ass.. then every time u piss .... Piss all over me on my bed drenchin me my bed and pillows man!
I didn't alter that e-mail in anyway. I'm shocked by this e-mail for so many reasons. The first being that he randomly capitalizes and misspelled should and whatever. The other being that someone really wants to be degraded that much during sex. Plus who wants their bed smelling of urine? I guess I keep forgetting that not everyone has the same view of sex. I'm more of a romantic guy in bed. I don't like calling someone bitch or cunt or faggot while having sex. I don't like to use my partner in that way. Maybe if it was a roleplay that we do once and awhile, but not an every day occurrence. Plus I'm pretty sure this guy likes to bareback and that ain't happening. Welcome back to the dating world huh?
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