Awesome night

I went out with Buck last night. It started off like a normal date. We were in his place listening to music and his dogs were all over me. I've officially been accepted into the pack it appears. Anyway we were chatting when a commercial for buffalo wild wings came on. And he said he hadn't been there in awhile. Then that lead to him saying he thinks that Olive Garden is doing unlimited pasta again and he hasn't been there in awhile. Well that lead to us driving out to Olive Garden and having just a great time. Came back to his place to snuggle some more and it was just awesome. We kissed and hug and then talked. We both admitted we were falling for each other. Not only that, but we think we are ready to actually have sex. We've seen each other naked and blown each other, but we haven't actually done anal yet. The main reason is that he's never been with a guy so he's basically a virgin and I've not been fucked in years so I'm basically a virgin again. I am glad we waited though. I think everything has just fallen into place where when we do have sex it will have more meaning behind it than just two guys getting off. I'm really starting to fall for him. I almost let the L word slip last night. Pretty sure he's feeling the same. We probably will both end up saying after we actually have sex. I feel good about this one. Doesn't feel like I have to worry about if I'm only into him for his looks. I've been more open with him than I have any other guy. I actually played my music for him. Now I know what you're thinking, you did that for Coach. No, I didn't. What I did was send him songs and post songs here which he could listen to. I never hooked up my mp3 player or grabbed a cd and played it for him. I can do that with Buck. I don't feel like he'd judge me. Can't say that about Coach. Not to mention everyone else is certainly more supportive of this one. Probably because Buck hasn't told them off or silently judge their choices, but enough of that.

 I posted this one because I think this guy is making an interesting face. Wonder if that's his sex face or was it as he was changing expressions. Looks like a smile that's turning into something. Face aside he has an amazing body. Pretty much looks like one of those anatomy charts.

 Oh dear his clothes are all wet. We better get them off him and into my warm bed. Don't want him to catch a cold after all.

 I find this gif hot because both guys stop just long enough for that guy to shoot a nice volley then go back to kissing.

Man Wade looks amazing. This isn't one of his more recent photos, but it's still pretty damn hot. Man I'd love a body like that.

Some first date do's and don'ts

I was watching the Today show and they were talking about insider tips from waiters. Well that got me thinking about how people mistreat waiters and waitresses which got me to think about if a date did that, which got me thinking of some first date do's and don'ts. As you can see my train of thought tends to zoom past stations. Anyway back to what I'm talking about today. A lot can go right and wrong in a first date. Basically a first date is a skills assessment test. We see if the guy has certain qualities that we want to further explore and touch on. So there are just somethings I've picked up that I think will help any of you out there going on your first date. So I guess I'll just go down the list. Starting with before the date.
Before the date: My best advice for before you are suppose to go out is to pay attention to your conversations leading up to the date. If he suddenly has radio silence that isn't a good sign. Yes he could just be busy, but most of the time it means he's had second thoughts. Could also mean you aren't the only one he's talking to. Hate to be a downer, but again that's just what I've seen in my past experience. Also if something comes up let the guy know. Do not wait until 4 minutes before the date to say something came up. You have just told the guy he isn't worth your time. Try to tell him if you can't make it for whatever reason and immediately try to reschedule something. Don't say oh we'll figure something out. This of course works for if it happens to you. A guy who isn't considerate of your time is not someone you want to get to know. He will usually have a lot of other traits that show he's pretty happy with his life the way it is or into himself.
Location: The location of the date is also important. If your date is at a bar, then it is not a date. If you are going to McDonald's than it is not a date. If you are going to his house or he's coming to your house then it's most likely a hook up. A home cooked meal is more of a 3rd or 4th date thing. 2nd if you really hit it off after the first time. The at home thing just lends itself to sex. Sex on the first date is something I'll cover later, but basically a guy that will have sex on the first date has most likely had sex with other guys on the first date and probably won't be faithful when the time comes. You want a place that's public so you can see if you'd enjoy being with him in public. You don't want a guy who acts like a freak out of bed as well as in.
Conversation: This is the big one right here. Where does the conversation go? Who dominates it? All these are things to pay attention to. A guy that dominates the conversation either doesn't like uncomfortable silence or just likes to spill his guts. It's usually not a good thing, unless you are a guy who is just that shy that you don't say much. A first date isn't really the place to let your date know ALL of your baggage. If the conversation goes that way and you both are sharing that's fine, but don't just volunteer that you once had sex with your high school teacher when you were a minor on a first date. Even if that's a question. If he's asking you about sex stuff then you know what really interests him. Asking if you are a top or a bottom should pretty much be the only sex question. The questions you get asked and the topics of conversation will kinda tell you where this guy is coming from. You want to give him a taste of what you have to offer not the whole pie. He will get that the more he dates you in smaller intervals.
Treatment: How does he treat others on your date. Does he snap his fingers at the waiter or waitress? Does he interrupt you while you are telling a story. Is he texting while you are on the date. All these are bad signs. They once again show lack of consideration for others. I've never had a guy snap at the wait staff luckily, but have had a guy who interrupted a lot and one who did in fact text while dating. Now a phone call is different. If he looks at it and then doesn't answer it that's fine, but if he doesn't say something like oh that's just my friend Megan then he's probably hiding something. If he says sorry I need to take this excuse me then it can be a bad sign. Unless he again volunteers who it was and what it was about. The other thing is when he answers it right there. If he just simply says, "sorry so and so I'm on a date we can talk later" that's fine, but if he has a whole other conversation with the person in front of you then move on. These are just some of the red flags I've seen.
After the date: Now this is kinda the gray area for a lot of guys. There is no real strict rule. If you are comfortable in your surroundings and with the guy give him a hug. A kiss on the first date is perfectly fine if you feel like you can. The gray area is sex. Personally I say no on the first date. Some say yes so you can see the physical chemistry. Just know your comfort level. Will say that if you do have sex on the first date because he insisted then he probably does it with all the other guys on the first date. Meaning there is probably a long list of guys you are being compared to. If you do go your separate ways after the date send him a thanks for the date had a great time text. There are two reasons for this. One it's just good manners. Two it will show you if he's still interested. If he says nothing back then you can probably expect there to not be a second date. Again this is just based on my experience.
Those are just some of the things I've learned can make or break a first date and lead to second date. Don't let a guy give you the run around. For some reason some guys like to dance around if there will be a second date. Just come right out and ask for a second date. Don't play games. If he says sure I'd like that, press him (unless this is after the first date). Have a date in mind and see how much he really wants the second date. Buck said he wanted a second date with me so the next day I said he lets go to the movies next weekend. And we are still dating. It's a peace of mind to not play games.

 I've posted a picture of the guy on the right hand side. I think this picture has been washed out. His bathroom is very yellow. I wondered if he was gay or not and well question kinda answered. Shame they both aren't down to their briefs. Maybe that's the next picture.

 I'm not a huge guy. I'm only 5' 6". That being said I find it super sexy when a guy lifts me up and kisses me. Hell I find it sexy when a guy lifts me up period. Just something about having a guy man handle me that gets everything going.

 Well isn't this guy all types of yummy. Again just a little chest hair would be awesome, but would never ever kick him out of bed. Would actually probably tie him to it.

I can not remember this guy's name. I know he was on Sean Cody before he started working with Falcon. I want to say it's Johnny something. I just find him so damn sexy. Cute face, nice smile, awesome body, and actually gay. Well if his interview for Sean Cody is to be believed.

Alone for a night

So Ted just left to go spend the weekend with his boyfriend Harry. Which means tonight I'm in the apartment alone. Yeah that's not a bad thing, just going to be weird for me. I've had roommates that were never around, but after seeing Ted all the time it's going to be weird to do what I want when I want. If I want to walk around naked I could. Tomorrow is the big night with Buck. It will be the first sleep over we have. The first of many I hope. He is the one that suggested it. I just happened to agree we should on his b-day weekend. He's also feeling better which is a plus. Wouldn't be shocked if I get sick next week because of it. Just don't know what to do with myself right now. Well yes I have work, but it's pretty dull today.

 Yes I will gladly service this guy. The fact that I can't see his eyes is kinda a turn on. Mainly because they look like cop glasses. And he's nice and furry. I do like them furry.

 Gotta love vintage stuff. There was just something a little hotter about the times. Probably because being gay was such a big taboo that it was exciting. Supposedly sex was everywhere if you had your eyes open. Wouldn't be shocked if on break a few construction workers would have a little no pants fun.

 You don't see this all too often. Not the cock riding, but seeing a bottom rock hard while doing it. Speaking as a guy who use to bottom it isn't necessarily our fault. Yeah it can feel great, but sometimes it doesn't translate to a boner. Then again different positions help with that.

This is what I could do tonight if I wanted to. Just walk around with a boner. I'm not going to of course, but could if I wanted to.

Online personality

To get you caught up. Yesterday me and Ted's daughter set up a surprise party for him. I'm shocked he didn't figure something was up because I'm usually pretty easy to read. Well it was a good time and he enjoyed his gifts. Tonight I'm heading over to Buck's. Sadly I forgot the lube I wanted to bring. Not for fucking, but for jacking. Pretty sure he has never used lube and I think that will go a long way with him. I'll just have to bring it next time.
Now to the point of this post. Guys online are weird. It seems like a majority have no clue what they want or who they want. How many times have you seen a guy with this laundry list of what he wants from a guy, but he meets none of his own criteria. I'm talking more about personality wise than physical. I'm not a bear and I like bears which isn't uncommon. I'm talking about guys who say they want a guy who treats others with respect, but will insta block you in a heartbeat. I personally am very picky about who I start a conversation with because I've seen all the types. I've learned to avoid keywords. When a guy says he's "straight acting" I've found that he will not talk to you if you aren't "masculine enough". He's also the type that ends up dating a guy for 2 weeks then breaking up. Hell one of those guys was on grindr the other day. He had exclusive as his status, but in his profile he said he was looking for a third. Looking for a third does not make you exclusive. Or the guys that only show you part of themself or that lie about their appearance. There is a guy who goes from being nearly 400lbs to 200lbs depending on what site your on. I've seen the guy. He is close to 400lbs. Then he wants to say he's bi. He's not bi. He's looking for a guy to date. That bi thing just appeared out of no where, but getting back to my point. Anyone that sees you will know that you are close to 400lbs and that is not something that you can just forgive. A picture that is a year old people can forgive. Saying you are 200lbs less than what you are is not something guys will forgive. That's why I try not to have photos older than a year on my profile. I just don't get what other guys are thinking.

 Well this is a guy that looks like he works with his hands. Innuendo intended. Just flat out yum.

 There is just something about a guy that rips his shirt that kinda gets the juices flowing. Maybe it goes back to Hulk Hogan. Whatever it is, you certainly see it a lot. And it's perfectly ok to do if you have a body like this guy.

 I'd never ask a guy to shave, but if he did and looked like this I'd be ok with it. I'd even ask to rub some lotion all over to make sure his skin is nice and smooth. If he happened to get really excited then that's just a bonus for me.

I have nothing against tattoos or guys that have them. Granted I do have three myself. It shows a guy that is willing to take a bit of pain. Especially if it's in a specifically tender area. Now there is taking it too far, but I don't think this is too far. Looks very artistic.

More progress

Last night me and Buck hung out at his place after I got off from work. I figured I'd give him a little surprise to see where things may lead, but I'll get to that later. I got there and he was in the shower and his dogs just freaked out on me. The male one was a bit more vocal today, but once Buck came out both calmed down. So calm in fact that the female one (I'm too lazy to give dogs aliases) actually layed in my lap. We were there for what seemed like an hour. Was probably more like 30 minutes. Then we moved to the bedroom. We of course made out and pretty soon I figured it was time for the surprise. The surprise was that I was wearing a jock. So he got to feel my bare ass. I was going to get him down to his briefs, but he said I'm not wearing any underwear. So being the tease I am I sat on top of him which of course woke things up even more. Before I knew it we both were nude. Which was my big plan for today. To get him comfortable with me seeing him nude. Not only were we nude, but we were both pretty hard the entire time. We again didn't cum, but we did just lay in each other arms. We were both so relaxed that we were actually starting to fall asleep. Today he even said he is getting more and more comfortable with me. I said something about last night being really amazing and he said he loved it. Which means we are on the right track. I don't have the highest of self esteem. That I think is the reason why I'm so quick to hop into bed with a guy. I need validation that he finds me sexually attractive. On the second date he was pretty hard and has gotten harder and stayed hard longer the more and more we get to know each other. Even said the other day he is almost ready to try topping me. I'm in no rush for that since I haven't been topped in awhile and his dick is a mouthful which means it's an assful. So we are happy with our pace and he does seem sincere when we are holding each other. Think we'll have to have another movie night.

 Now that is a back. The definition on this guy is insane. Can only imagine what he looks like from the front. To get this ripped, you have to really lower your body fat. Another reason why I couldn't do bodybuilding. Can imagine fucking that ass?

 I truly don't know when an image has been morphed and when it hasn't. A part of me wants to say ok this image has been enhanced, but where. The guy on th eleft does seem pretty bulky, but at the same time it doesn't look like it's not his. Then you look at his leg, and then you think well looks like someone took off their pants or posers or whatever. Either way it's a fun image to look at.

 So the NYC fire department calendar is out. Well been out, but seems like everyone in one of the yahoo groups I'm in can't stop talking about it. You can't help but admire firemen. They have a very risky and demanding job. A job that forces them to be physically fit. As a result you get images like this one here. And is there really ever such thing as an ugly fireman?

The context of this video leads me to believe that this guy is a roofer of some sort working on a roof when someone has gotten him pretty horned up. He pulls out his stiffed dick and takes a picture. I would say that whoever this was sent to either felt the need to share or he was sharing it with the world. Either way we are glad it was.

Pushing through

It is clearly going to be a long week for me. It has been super slow at the store. I haven't posted earlier because I've been so tired because I'm so bored. Doesn't help the motivation. I did get to spend last night with Buck. I asked if he wanted to go with me and Ted to watch Ned play, but sadly the weather didn't like that idea. So me and Buck went to have dinner then back to his place. He had an interview today (he thinks it went well) and I asked if he needed me to do anything yesterday to help him relax or prepare. We chose the snuggle relaxation technique. I know that me being Buck's first experience with a guy means I do need to be patient and take it slow, but it's so hard to not rip that man's clothes off and beg him to fuck me. Right now his big problem is staying hard. I know it has to do with nerves. So I'm doing my best to take it slow and get him use to being with a guy. There are signs that the progress is working. The first time we snuggled he got hard once and that was it. Ever since then he's getting a lot harder a lot longer. Last night he was pretty boned up. Then we went into spooning mode and the dogs coming by and wanting attention didn't help. The big breakthrough for yesterday was that when we were spooning I kinda wiggled my ass into his crotch and got an immediate response. I felt his dick start plumping up. And it continued to do so until it was completely hard. The entire time I'm trying to be good, but the fact that he didn't try to stop me wasn't helping. I think the next step is naked snuggling. Hopefully I'll also be able to get him to cum. It's hard to be good.

 Every guy needs at least one jockstrap. I think it's a must. Even if you are a top with no inclination to get fucked, you still need a jockstrap. It just frames the ass so nicely. Not only that, but fucking in a jockstrap is actually pretty hot. I've done it a time or two. A lot of us really like jockstraps so even if they aren't your thing chances are that the guy you are with will go nuts seeing you in one.

 I feel like I'm late to this party. I'm sure most of you know Austin Wolf. If not then you will probably be seeing him a lot more. The sexy thing about Austin is that he's not just a big guy, but he just seems like such a big sweetheart. It has to do with the smile he gives, the fact he doesn't have this huge commanding voice, but one that just makes you just shiver because it's so sweet. And when you see him top it's just wow. Clearly a guy that knows what a bottom likes. I would love it if this guy was the first one to top me. Well first one to do it in a couple of years. Plus the tattoos he has just prove how sweet he is. How many guys do you know with a mickey mouse tattoo? Just makes him hotter.

 This is a sexy guy. If I saw this guy and a bodybuilder in a gay bar and both were hitting on me, I'd probably end up going home with this guy. The reason being is that he's got a nice build, but he seems a hell of a lot more approachable. I base this of course off his smile.

I'm sure a lot of you remember the wrestler Goldberg. If you don't then I suggest you go use google. Anyway I had a on again off again crush on him. Which I found this image I just had to post it. To see this big guy (I think he's like 6' 6" and over 300 lbs) with this tiny little kitten is just so adorable.

Couldn't keep the momentum going

Before you think I'm talking about my dating life, I'm not. I'm just having a bad Monday after the good weekend I had. I guess I should start from the beginning. I had a date with Buck (yes he now has an alias) and Ted also had a date. The date he had was with Tommy 3...or was it Tommy 4. Or am i just wrong and it's Tommy 2. Ok let's back track. Tommy 1 was for sure the guy that stood me up. Tommy 2 was the guy who talked to me until I asked him out. Tommy 3 was the guy that was just too cheap to go out. Yes he went on a date with Tommy 3. Now he did know what happened between me and Tommy 3 and Ned also had an issue with Tommy 3. Tommy 3 and Ned were roommates. Ned apparently has nothing good to say about Tommy 3. And Ned isn't exactly this guy who can't usually find something nice to say about someone. Well anyway Ted and Tommy 3 apparently hit it off well on bear and decided to go out. Well Ted was working and my date wasn't going to start until later since Buck was working until 6. Apparently Ted and Tommy 3 (and no I'm not taking off the number) decided they'd head back to the apartment to watch Naked Boys Singing. I did ok it. I was suppose to get a heads up so I could get out of there before Tommy 3 showed up and things got awkward. Yeah Ted called me when they were in the parking lot. So I had to rush out (luckily I had already showered) and go get dinner for me and buck. Well I get to Buck's place and his dogs didn't actually freak out. He has two dogs (a male and female). The boy tends to just bark and hide behind Buck for the first 10 minutes that I'm there. The female is just a little shy then warms up. Both were licking me as soon as I walked in. We then ate and watched Thor. We snuggled the entire movie and then I gave Buck a massage. We made out and started to get a little physical. Then Buck went soft and even though we didn't have the lights on I could tell it was really getting to him. So I just kissed him and assured him I'm not going anywhere. I know full well he's sexually attracted to me (he was hard most of the time when we were making out). I told him we'll just take it slow. I'm the only guy he's been with. So I said we just have to take steps to get you use to being with a guy. Then I made out with him some more and he got really hard. Neither of us came, but while we were making out and snuggling we agreed we wanted to continue to date and thus we are now officially dating.
We don't know when the next date will be since he has a job interview tomorrow and very well could have to work on Saturday. He did assure me that if he gets the job we are celebrating. Yes he did say we. So there is a chance we are going out twice this week. Don't know what we will do just yet. Money is tight for him and I can't keep buying dinner for us. Thinking maybe some time at a park or another movie.
As for today it has just been one of those days. I miscalculated the deposit. Went to separate the cash for the deposit from the till I was short. The till had less than what I normally start with. This of course made me think I gave out way more change than I should have which freaked me out. I of course had to be to work early because my apartment complex decided that this week would be the perfect week to fill in the cracks in the parking lot so all the cars had to be out by 8. Which wouldn't have been so bad if the city hadn't decided that they needed to tear up the street to fix the pot holes. So now the road outside the apartment complex is a gravel road making getting to and from annoying as hell. Then we have tons of rain in the forecast so they won't be able to get anything done the rest of the week. Also means that eventually we won't be able to get in or out of the apartment complex because they will have poured cement. Yeah not a happy camper today.

 The one fun thing, well one of the many fun things about laying in bed with a guy in just his briefs is that you can see when he's excited. You can rub all over his body until you know he wants you to do more. Always a fun tease.

 I personally do not find sex in public places hot, however since it's porn and I know it's not in "public" it's fine. Will say these two guys are hot. The guy sucking dick is named Milos I think. He's like 21 or 22. Has an amazing body. I'm jealous of guys with bodies like that, that are my age. Makes me feel like I'm slacking.

 So I figured Francios Sagat shaved his head to have the tattoo show, but I've never seen him with a full head of hair. I don't knwo if this is a wig or if it's his actual hair, but it caught my eye. Makes sense for it to be his real hair since it's the right shade. Always interesting when a porn star (or in this case former porn star) changes something about themself.

This is clearly a vintage photo. You can tell by the hair. And the color in the picture. This looks like this is the beginning of a muscle worship session. Well I just had some naughty thoughts going through my head. Shocker I know.

Yep it went well

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Curveball

So I was talking to the guy yesterday and he informed me he was working Saturday until 6. We could go out tomorrow (today) or Saturday after 6 or both. Needless to say I chose the both option. If the weather permits we'll be grilling out then watching a movie. I don't know what to expect tonight. I don't know if we are going to do anything sexual or not. I do know that I'm not ready to be topped. If he was to top me I'd need to know we were in a relationship. I can be emotionally detached as a top, but not as a bottom. For me that's pretty damn intimate. Don't think it would happen tonight anyway. Saturday may be a different story. I also need to know where I stand. Does he like what he sees in me. Does he think we could one day be in a relationship. Are we officially "dating"? I guess it's the fact that he's a really good guy. I feel naturally at ease with him. I enjoy snuggling with him and laughing with him. I certainly don't want to pass him up. If he passes me up, it's not like there aren't a few guys dying to be with me. Just I'd like my first option. He lives close by and he has his own place so that's a plus. If we do get together I just have a reservation. I won't mention what it is until I figure out if we are a couple or not.
Ted's love life has soured sadly. The guy he went out with Saturday didn't live up to his expectations. The guy lives an hour away and came up to see him. Ted thought they hit it off well, but apparently not well enough. The guy would be very sweet one day and very cold and distant the next. He apparently has had 5 past relationships and each has left their own baggage. He apparently has spent 9 years getting over the last one. Well Ted had his phone number and e-mail plus the place where they met online. Well apparently this guy doesn't respond to texts or e-mails. To back track a bit Ted is a big believer in Astrology. He's a cancer (crab), I'm a libra (scales), and the guy in question is a gemini (twin). Libra and gemini are both air signs. Meaning we have similar characteristics. We both are more thinkers while cancer is a water sign and more emotional. Typically wind and water signs don't hit it off well. Especially water signs that come right after us. For me that's scorpio and for gemini that's cancer. Back to the present Ted sends the gemini guy an e-mail. The e-mail basically says you said you were interested, but you aren't showing it. So the gemini guy responds back saying that was a very emotional e-mail (yes it was condescending) and maybe we should just stop here and wish each other good luck on our searches. I sadly can see both sides. For Ted you have to give him something to chew on. Even if you just respond back saying, I'm at work today or at the doctors or busy right now, but we'll talk later. Or at least say hope you have a good day. Those little things go a long way for him. Well the way to get attention from a guy who's very logical is to be logical and rational. Say hey your actions aren't showing that you really want to go further. Are you interested or not. Notice how detached that was.
Now keep and mind I'm not a firm believer in astrology. I just know a lot of this stuff because I played this game called monster galaxy on facebook that is based on zodiac signs and elements. It's like pokfemon if pokemon dealt with astrological signs v.s. types. If astrology is to be believed then the two Sagittariuses I dated (coach and john) would have been my perfect match. It's just something fun to look at. My dad's are complete opposite signs and shouldn't be together, but they are going on their 15th year together. I don't even know the guy's sign that I'm going out with. I rather not know so it doesn't color my idea of him. He might be a sagittarius or a leo (both I'm suppose to get along great with). He might be a virgo or scorpio (those that I need to stay away from). Like I said it's just fun to look at. Not changing my dating life based on it.

 I know this photo has been edited to make it appear that this guy is in an alley way, but it is a fun thing to think about. Just walking down the street one day when you go down an allyway and find this guy waiting for you. No names exchanged just wants you to plow him good.

 I can not run naked. Ok I can, but it would be very uncomfortable for me. I can barely bike or use the elliptical at the gym. My dick is a decent size and when it's awake it makes running or biking very hard. It's why I have to listen to music or focus on the tv. If I didn't then the friction would wake him up and it's hard to hide an erection in gym pants.

 Those of us that leak can relate to this picture. If you don't produce a lot of pre-cum you sadly are missing out. If you've been with a guy who has leaked a lot you know what I'm talking about. Pre-cum is great lube and a good way to drive a guy nuts. I know that when I'm a top fucking a guy who leaks I like to have him ride me. I'll then take some of his pre-cum rub it on the head of his dick and keep fucking him. Drives them nuts. It's also pretty sweet tasting.

There's just something rewarding about having a good size cumshot. I know I personally get disappointed when I go to cum and it just kinda leaks out. When it squirts out like this onto myself or the guy it kinda is like an ego boost. Something in my mind just goes "that's right I just shoot like a canon. You thought that was hot didn't you ;)"

I'm a happy boy

Well the date on Saturday went well. I picked him up early and we went straight to get dinner. From there we went to the theater and waited like 20 minutes for the movie to start. We went to see Man of Steel and figured it would be packed. Well it could have been packed. There was this big fest going on with a concert that's a big deal. There are a lot of people that go to that and a lot of people that avoid going out to avoid that crowd. Anyway it was not jam packed but there were a fair amount of people. Well my big plan that whole movie was to hold his hand. I would try to get close and it seemed like he'd move his hand so I kinda gave up and was focusing on the movie. Then the next thing I know we are making contact with our pinkies. So I added another finger until we were holding hands. From there we drove to his place and I turned off the car to walk him to the door. He invited me in and we ended up snuggling on the couch. We made out and probably would have taken it further if we both didn't enjoy the snuggling so much. I then decided to let him choose what we did for the third date. Well he asked me out for dinner and then going back to his place for a movie. Sadly I think that might be on hold. Shortly after he asked me he found out he has been let go. I maybe going over to cheer him up and only to cheer him up. Going to give him some time and see what he needs.
On a less depressing note Ted finally got out. He went out on Saturday with a guy he met on okcupid. A site I have had no luck with. The guy lives about an hour away. They went to the park then out for dinner and the guy drove back because he had an art fair he had to do on Sunday. Well all of Sunday Ted was freaking out. Said he had a bad feeling. That he was sure that he wouldn't hear from the guy again. Well I told him that he needs to listen to his initial gut reaction. He at first felt great about the date. Then came the nagging side of the brain that told him he said too much. He based this off the fact the guy hadn't texted or e-mailed him Saturday night or Sunday morning. Well he finally got back to him Sunday evening once he got back and said he had a good time too.

 I want to be a massage therapist one day, but seeing someone like this on the table would make it very hard to be good. Especially witht he towel not even covering his ass. He's just asking for trouble.

 I'm a guy that is very into kissing. A good kiss is the quickest way to bone me up. And it's not just in real life. A porno that has a lot of kissing and passion will do me in every time.

 It's always hot seeing guys pounding fleshlites. Usually they end up shooting huge amounts. This guy has a pretty thick dick. I'm sure it's not easy for him to find anyone to top. Sure he gets plenty of offers to get sucked though.

Woof! Sexy body and a very nice looking dick. Will say I didn't know the iPhone had a camera with a timer on it. Then again I don't know half of the things my iPhone can do.

Slowly coming together

So the plans for Saturday are slowly coming together. We decided to see a movie, but of course I asked him out on Sunday and the times for the up coming week aren't posted then. Well he was on fandango and found when they were on. And yes I will give this guy a name if Saturday goes well and he continues to talk to me after which I'm not too worried about. Anyway we decided on the movie and kinda know the time. I even got him to let me pick him up. That means operation "hold his hand and get a good night kiss" are on schedule. And yes I am looking at this as an operation. The idea is that when we are in the theater there is a good chance I can hold his hand. This only works if he puts his hand on his lap. On the arm rest works, but you can't do it nonchalantly. I tried to do it with the last guy, but he kept his arms folded the entire time. Which of course should have told me something. Anyway the dinner is so that we get back to being comfortable again before the movie so there is less chance he'll take his hand back and actually hold mine back. The me driving part is so that we can be in a more intimate setting as we finishing up the date. If I get the good night kiss I'll be happy. If he invites me in I certainly won't say no. Now I won't stay the night and pretty sure he isn't expecting me to. Sex is off the table though. Well everything up to anal stuff. The reason being is that he's a top and I haven't been topped in forever. It's going to be a slow process and it may take all night. After Saturday we will see where things go. We enjoy talking (based off the fact we text most of the day) and we are being a bit more playful and suggestive with our texts now. I do know that I've called this date like three times and he has not corrected me so score.

 Where are these gyms. There is no huge guy like this at my gym. And sadly the only gym that does have guys like this are full of douche bags. I mean the hardcore gym type. Those that aren't even fun eye candy because they are so much of a douche. Don't know what this guy is like, but I'm sure it would be better if he was the strong silent type.

 Is it sad that my very first thought with this picture was how hot is this guy? I don't mean hot like sexy, I mean hot as in I'm sure he is burning up underneath that paint. That paint obviously doesn't let your skin breath and it's over everything. Sure he needed a cold bath after this and not because of the hardon. Will say it does make his body stand out even more then it already does.

 I know this is an older photo because this guy is now HUGE! See how he has some definition here. Yeah not anymore. He did a video where he was over 300lbs (least that's what it said in the description) and he was just massive. Was a shame that he wasn't just a bit more defined, but pretty sure he does still compete which means he was majorly off season. He has has a lot more tattoos including the tear drop one.

Remember what i said about upward angles and makign a guy look bigger and more masculine. Well here's more proof of that. Admit that by moving his hips a little his dick looks pretty massive. Certainly wouldn't mind climbing that tower.

Was that so hard?

So I had my date on Saturday. It went really well. We both came to the restaurant early which is always a good sign. We were both a little nervous, but that kinda disappeared when he accidentally spilled his water. After that we had fun laughing and joking around and getting to know each other. We stayed at the restaurant for 2 hours. Afterwards we chatted and said we should do it again. I figured when I get home I'd thank him for the good time. Well I get home and he's already sent me a text telling me he had fun and hoped I did too. That is honestly a first. I've never had a guy message me first to say he had a good time. So the next day I said hey and I actually heard back. Another first. Well not a first, but it's been forever. And I asked him out to see a movie and dinner on Saturday. He said yes. He did it coyly, but he still said yes. Don't know what movie or when because those times haven't been posted on anything yet. The next step is to throw him a curveball a bit closer to the date. I'm going to ask if I can pick him up. I'm doing this because there is a better chance of a good night kiss if I do. When we left each other we were out in the parking lot. It was way too public to really try anything. I also think that's one reason why the date went so well. There was no huge expectations put on the other. Neither of us asked if this meant we were dating. We didn't ask if this means we are boyfriends. We didn't even talk about sex. We still haven't really talked about sex. And yes we are still talking. With this second date I'm still not expecting a whole lot. If I get a kiss and get to hold his hand during the movie then I'm good. I'm not expecting to have him invite me in. I'm not expecting him to have his hand all over my thigh. I just want to continue to get to know him. I will say I'm kinda on a time crunch. You see I'm going on vacation for a week in July and just need to know if I'm leaving a guy I'm dating or if I'm leaving with a guy that just wants to be friends. If we are dating then I won't even be looking at grindr or any other hook up site, but that is awhile away. Even if we only see each other the next 3 saturdays that's plenty of time to figure out where this is going. So that's kinda helped me be a lot more patient. That and the fact he isn't being a jerk who doesn't talk to me. Plus he is the one that said I'm the first guy he's really seemed to connect with in a long time. Unprovoked. It's what lead to this first date. I was honestly going to wait another week before even proposing to meet.

 I must say this is by far probably one of the more perfect asses I've seen. I say that because it's clearly muscular, but with him bent over you have easy access to his hole. That isn't as common as you think. I had to have Coach spread his ass to really get easy access to his hole. That's a guy I'd love to be able to fuck.

 According to the name of this picture file this guy is Dick Caber. I'll admit that I haven't really been paying attention to the guys Titan has been putting out because they are so sue happy and it's hard to find a scene from them. That being said, I wish I had. He's a pretty hot looking guy. Love to see him in action.

 Kinda amazing what we can do when it comes to 3-d images. I don't know where this came from, but I do know I wouldn't mind shooting like that. Having a dick that size would make it very hard to be a top. Seems like there are guys out there that do shoot a pretty good load every time. Wonder how I can end up doing that.

I want to say this is morphed, but I'm pretty sure it isn't. This guy is just that big. Running into this guy would be like running into a brick wall I"m sure. He looks super solid.

And just when I had given up

Every now and again a guy will do something to impress me. A few days ago I had messaged this guy who sounded interesting, but didn't hear back from him until yesterday. Well we started chatting and moved to texts. Turns out that we had a lot in common. Our names even sound the same. So we have agreed to go out Saturday night. He is the one that proposed the idea. So we'll see if he's truly what he's putting forward. It appears he is, but I've been fooled before. If the date does happen, we'll see if he continues to talk to me. I think the way the conversation goes will determine if I can expect to hear from him or not. I'm trying to not get my hopes up. When they are high they can easily be dashed. When they are low they can easily be raised. Just find it weird that with so many guys hitting me up looking for sex or whatever they want one guy actually seems to be interested in getting to know me. Well on monday you'll hear how it went good or bad.

 Found this on Roids and Rants. I'm not a flower type guy. If a guy gives me flowers I get more offended then flattered. With that being said this is pretty cute. If a guy showed up like this I'd be more flattered than angry. It has to do with the eyes and the smile he's giving.

 This guy could be an underwear model. It honestly annoys me that most underwear models you'll find are super shaven. Let's get some real men on there. Like dove has the real women campaign, let's get something going showing guys in their underwear. Hell I'd buy this guy's underwear in a heartbeat.

 Colt use to be so different. They not only put out some really good movies, but also did some really good photos. Seemed like they not only good get some very fit guys, but knew how to pose them in such a way that it was very erotic. This guy looks great and it's a simple position, but you can tell he is super built and define.

A lot of guys are now shaving their head or not a shamed to show they are bald. They actually did a study that even showed that if you are going bald, just shave it. Most people associate shaved heads with masculinity because of famous action men like Dwayne Johnson. I think that if the guy is not only bald or shaved, but is hairy too it's super sexy. Seems like a lot of guys will shave everything if they shave their head.