Soap Box time

So I was watching an interview on the Today show and it got me thinking. They were interviewing Dottie Sandusky. For those of you who aren't in the US, her husband Jerry Sandusky was convicted of sexually abusing boys at his charity. If you want to learn more about it just google him. Well this got me thinking about Mike Dozer's case. There are two schools of thought here which both lead to the idea that a grown man should not be having sex with a minor. This does not apply to couples where one is 18 and the other is 16 or 17. That I think is more age appropriate. I mean you go to high school and you see a freshman who is 14 or 15 dating a senior who's 17 or 18. That is more age appropriate.
The first part of this soap box has to deal with the Sandusky type situation. This is when a grown man goes after young boys. This is sadly what a lot of us gay males get treated as by those that' are closed minded. The thought that we try to seduce young boys into sexual situations. Needless to say we all agree this is wrong. Ok a good chunk of us do. This really screws up a kids sexual boundaries. It also screws up the trust. The guy Ted was dating had an older kid that forced himself on him. Even to this day the guy has a low self esteem. He blamed himself for the attack. A guy who does this has problems and needs help. There is also a good chance that he fell into the second group.
For those of you who didn't know about Mike Dozer let me give you the quick version. Basically he has plead not guilty to counts that he had sex with a minor. The rumor is that the 14 year old pursued him online. Mike put the kid off, but supposedly agreed. Now here's where my problem lies. I'm not crazy enough to think that young guys don't go for older guys. Hell I'm 25 and I think a lot of guys in their 40's are sexy. Even guys in their 60's. The difference is that I'm not a kid. Sex to a minor is like candy for a small kid. Give a kid a taste of candy and they will constantly want it and want it until they get sick. As an adult you have to tell the kid no. I don't care how pushy the kid was, but just say no. If you did do something the chances are high that eventually (today or 10 years from now) the kid will come forward and say that they were sexually abused. The other outcome is you get a guy who doesn't have a sexual boundary and can end up being the predator from the first category.
Basically my point is that kids should be off limits. I'm 25 and I don't even want to deal with an 18 year old. I want to be with a guy who knows what they are doing. Not to mention all the parts have matured. I know everyone has their opinion and this is mine. Yes being with an older guy or girl in some cases is a big sexual fantasy we all had growing up. These are just the things I've seen. Some of you have probably been with an older guy when you were that young and disagree with me. I understand. We all have the right to think differently. I just know that looking back I'm glad I waited because I was so naive and could have gotten hurt so bad.

 This guy is Bo Bangor. I've seen him floating around, but only recently learned his name. He seems to go back and forth between condom and bareback. He's also versatile. Now he is heavily tattooed, but I don't think that's a deal breaker. Now he's not as verbal as I like my guys, but always seems to get paired up with a guy who makes up for that. As a result I love watching his scenes.

 I don't know how many of you know wielders, but this is how I imagine most of them. It's a very physical job. As a result you'd think that they would be pretty fit. Least the ones I've met have been. They aren't huge like this guy, but they tend to look like they have hit the gym a time or two.

 This is Scott Carter. I believe he's retired from porn sadly. Now I could be wrong. I just haven't seen anything new of his. Scott is kinda a strong silent type. He never really seems to say much, but well like he has too. Always seems to be into any scene he does. And look at that body.

Bear is kinda into leather. He wants to get a chest harness similar to this. Honestly I find that very hot. Bear isn't as hairy as this guy, but I could see him being a very sexy leather bear.