On the plus side I do have a date with Coach and he likes me with or without glasses. Actually this will be the first time he's seen me with them on. Seeing as he wears glasses himself it's no big deal. Speaking of Coach he and Ted e-mailed last night. Ted wrote him a long one, but Coach wrote back a pretty nice and heartfelt e-mail which I know Ted will like. Basically just stating what I have been telling Ted which is that we both aren't going to turn our backs on him. That should hopefully make him feel better. Especially since we do know the local dating scene. So far he hasn't come across anyone that would make me say no don't talk to him, but at the same time he doesn't show me every guy he's talking to. Yet I really don't want to know cause well it's not entirely my business. It's this fine line I'm trying to walk. Between a caring and helpful friend and looking like a nosey nelly. That is actually a phrase I'm not making a derogatory attack on myself.
Now back to the date. We are going to a Chinese Buffet (cause I want to see them try to shoo him out cause he "eats too much" at an all you can eat buffet) then go home to watch more Queer as Folk. I will have a surprise for Coach. It's not a surprise that you can see. He'll know when he gets the surprise. He will love it just like I love him. And no it's not barebacking. That is something we agreed is down the road after a year or so and we have been tested and cleared. Don't see why either of us wouldn't, but again it's a down the road thing.
So I remember what I wanted to talk about yesterday. Finally my brain is sending out those electric impulses correctly again. I might have mentioned this crazy guy that went out with Coach once and has suddenly popped out of no where to say how much he loves coach etc. Well he's now blocked so he can't talk to Coach on bear anymore. In his last message he just wanted Coach to know how depressed he was since they weren't together and how in love he was. Now something I didn't know, but this isn't the first time he's tried something like this. When Coach was seeing someone else he came out of the woodwork to say how much he loves him and blah blah blah. Needless to say Coach couldn't care less about this guy. He's the same guy who said he bought a house and was going to tell Coach on their 2nd date. He supposedly quit his job as well. He had also lied about getting Coach a collar. It just amazes me the links some guys go to for sex. He could have had Coach if he had his shit together. He lost out on his chance and laid a guilt trip after he lost his chance. So he now has this need to pull this if I can't have you no one can crap. Well he did forget about the block feature.
It's guys like that that make us not want to put who we are dating. Which reminds me I need to update my bear saying that. I've been dragging my feet cause I don't get hit on nearly as much as Coach does. Actually come to think of it I don't think I have been hit on since me and Coach started going out. Just my friends saying that Coach has got a good guy and such. Anyway you get these guys that don't read profiles or read them, but don't give a shit. They think they are so hot that they can get any guy. There was actually a porn star (star might be over stating it a bit since I think he only did 2 things) who hit on him yesterday. That's a bit of something I can show boat about, but at the same time it pisses me off cause the guy doesn't respect me. He hit on my boyfriend. There are plenty of single guys on the site that he could have hit on.
Well with saying all that it reminds me of a song (shocker). The song is called The Boy is Mine. Now granted it's about two girls fighting over the same guy, but it kinda fits here. Coach is mine. Some guys may be a bit confused on that, but well it's true. He's mine and I'm his. Plus I love this song. I can honestly say I never got why girls fought each other when they are both being played by the guy? I mean if he's doing this now then clearly he's not marriage material. If a guy does this to you then he's not worth it. Move on and find yourself a good guy. There are plenty of us out there.
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