Once again Date night

Well today has already gotten off to a rocky start. I woke up at about 7 completely forgetting I had to be at work at 8 for a meeting. I remembered at 7:57 and rushed out. I forgot my contacts so now I'm wearing my glasses. It's not that I don't like to wear my glasses (who doesn't like to see), but I just prefer my contacts. It's nice to be able to see the world without a frame. Plus it means I can actually see during sex, and when you have a guy like Coach you want to see everything.
On the plus side I do have a date with Coach and he likes me with or without glasses. Actually this will be the first time he's seen me with them on. Seeing as he wears glasses himself it's no big deal. Speaking of Coach he and Ted e-mailed last night. Ted wrote him a long one, but Coach wrote back a pretty nice and heartfelt e-mail which I know Ted will like. Basically just stating what I have been telling Ted which is that we both aren't going to turn our backs on him. That should hopefully make him feel better. Especially since we do know the local dating scene. So far he hasn't come across anyone that would make me say no don't talk to him, but at the same time he doesn't show me every guy he's talking to. Yet I really don't want to know cause well it's not entirely my business. It's this fine line I'm trying to walk. Between a caring and helpful friend and looking like a nosey nelly. That is actually a phrase I'm not making a derogatory attack on myself.
Now back to the date. We are going to a Chinese Buffet (cause I want to see them try to shoo him out cause he "eats too much" at an all you can eat buffet) then go home to watch more Queer as Folk. I will have a surprise for Coach. It's not a surprise that you can see. He'll know when he gets the surprise. He will love it just like I love him. And no it's not barebacking. That is something we agreed is down the road after a year or so and we have been tested and cleared. Don't see why either of us wouldn't, but again it's a down the road thing. 
So I remember what I wanted to talk about yesterday. Finally my brain is sending out those electric impulses correctly again. I might have mentioned this crazy guy that went out with Coach once and has suddenly popped out of no where to say how much he loves coach etc. Well he's now blocked so he can't talk to Coach on bear anymore. In his last message he just wanted Coach to know how depressed he was since they weren't together and how in love he was. Now something I didn't know, but this isn't the first time he's tried something like this. When Coach was seeing someone else he came out of the woodwork to say how much he loves him and blah blah blah. Needless to say Coach couldn't care less about this guy. He's the same guy who said he bought a house and was going to tell Coach on their 2nd date. He supposedly quit his job as well. He had also lied about getting Coach a collar. It just amazes me the links some guys go to for sex. He could have had Coach if he had his shit together. He lost out on his chance and laid a guilt trip after he lost his chance. So he now has this need to pull this if I can't have you no one can crap. Well he did forget about the block feature.
It's guys like that that make us not want to put who we are dating. Which reminds me I need to update my bear saying that. I've been dragging my feet cause I don't get hit on nearly as much as Coach does. Actually come to think of it I don't think I have been hit on since me and Coach started going out. Just my friends saying that Coach has got a good guy and such. Anyway you get these guys that don't read profiles or read them, but don't give a shit. They think they are so hot that they can get any guy. There was actually a porn star (star might be over stating it a bit since I think he only did 2 things) who hit on him yesterday. That's a bit of something I can show boat about, but at the same time it pisses me off cause the guy doesn't respect me. He hit on my boyfriend. There are plenty of single guys on the site that he could have hit on.
Well with saying all that it reminds me of a song (shocker). The song is called The Boy is Mine. Now granted it's about two girls fighting over the same guy, but it kinda fits here. Coach is mine. Some guys may be a bit confused on that, but well it's true. He's mine and I'm his. Plus I love this song. I can honestly say I never got why girls fought each other when they are both being played by the guy? I mean if he's doing this now then clearly he's not marriage material. If a guy does this to you then he's not worth it. Move on and find yourself a good guy. There are plenty of us out there.

Long Day

Today has just not been a good day. I've gotten a lot of "just looking" customers. Plus it seems like my brain doesn't want to work. I've been working on this blog since this morning. I can't think of anything to write. Well it was bound to happen. I've written pretty much everyday for what 2 or 3 weeks now? I want it to be tomorrow so I can spend some more time with Coach. Maybe it's cause I'm nervous cause Ted asked for Coach's e-mail address and I'm just worried what Ted might say. Ted likes to write out these long e-mails and Coach has already said he doesn't have time for something like that. I'm really just getting myself all worked up. Ted might actually be good and just get to know Coach and won't spill his guts too quickly.
Other than that not too much to report. Me and coach are doing well per usual. Ted and I are getting along fine. It's just a non-eventful day. I have no stats to report and nothing has my feathers all ruffled. Well it happens sometimes.

And my Monday has been long

It's only 11:45 (as of the time I'm writing this) and I'm so ready for today to be over. It has just been a long morning. Slow at the store plus seems like I can't get going. Also had trouble placing an order today which didn't help. I'm just now getting some breakfast in. Well the 2nd part of my breakfast that I save for when I get to work. Anyway a lot happened this weekend.
The good news is that my ex boyfriend Ted is on a dating website. Which now that I've gone through one day with him on that website is also bad news. Saturday he was all up beat. He had a guy that he thought was cute he contacted and had a few guys wink at him. Sunday he was a little depressed. The guy that he messaged apparently is giving up searching for a bit so he can focus on his school and job. The other bad news is that he's sent some e-mails to other guys and hasn't heard back. He was also contacted by two other guys and he isn't to thrilled about them. One lives about three hours away and Ted doesn't want to do a whole lot of driving which I can't blame him. Three hours is a lot of time on the road and would require either staying over a lot or having 6 hours free and a lot of money for gas. The other lives local and is one of those stuck on himself guys. At first I thought he wasn't giving him a far shake, until I read his profile. It's one of those "I'm a fit masculine man who's very professional and traveled the world" type of profiles. The kind that make you just go gross. He even answers his e-mails saying "Fit masculine guy here". Who does that? Who truly responds to every e-mail or message with fit masculine guy here? Now as for the guy that lives three hours away I kinda talked Ted into giving him a chance to get to know him. Saying that if you put it right out there that you aren't looking to do a lot of traveling then it may work. Sounds like he is self employed and has a lot of time that he could spend on driving. Even said in his profile he could move anywhere. They are pretty close in age and he seems like a nice guy. So like I said this is a kinda good news bad news situation.
There is a lot going on here. One he's on a dating website that caters to both men and women gay and straight. Two he's finally put a picture of him up on the website. Three he hasn't gotten the best reception. Four it's a pay site. He's paid for 3 months on the site. See I'm always leery of sites where you have to pay to do anything. Just cause you pay doesn't make it a good site. Yes it can weed out the players, but it can also scare away people who are good. I have no interest in paying to find a guy to talk to. I only joined sites like gay.com, bear411, Manhunt, and adam4adam. Not all at the same time and the only one I'm still on is bear411. Each site caters to a different crowd. Ted is looking for a real relationship. Hopefully he can find a guy on the site cause if not....well going to be hard on me and Coach.
In other news Coach will be meeting Ted tomorrow. Well that is assuming he doesn't change his mind. I'm trying to respect that he is having a hard time. No one likes seeing their ex find someone before them. Especially when you are still trying to get over him or her. It's just starting to get hard. Last night for instance. I wanted to stay up until 11:30 to watch the Robot Chicken DC comics special (which was kinda a let down). I said that when he asked if I was staying up and he says you are just saying that cause you want to talk to Coach (he said his real name). Note that I had talked to Coach earlier in the day and he knew about it. I didn't hide it. He said it with a smile, but at the same time it didn't feel like a complete joke. I said no I'm really staying up to watch that special plus to talk to him this late would be rude to you. He said well you could text. I said Coach doesn't have a cell phone (one thing I constantly remind him of) and that we talk through e-mail which I can do at any time. Plus he was asleep at the time. And that's just one of the recent comments. I'm trying to be honest with him and not hide things, but comments like that make it hard. If I'm staying up to talk to my boyfriend I'll say so. If he had stayed up he would have saw I wasn't lying. Respect works both ways and I'm just going to have to say something. Just haven't wanted to rock the boat too much since we have been doing really well. For the most part he was good Sunday.
Well in positive news Coach has some more stat updates. I got them Saturday, but this was after I had finished the blog and didn't want to go back to do an update. I was working on a Saturday so excuse my laziness on that.

Current Weight: 190lbs
Lifting Stats: working bench press for reps 200-215lbs
Squats 235-250lbs
Romanian deadlifts 260lbs
Barbell curl 85lbs-95lbs
Shrugs 250lbs-260lbs
Overhead barbell shoulder press 110lbs-115lbs
Dumbbell concentration curls at 40lbs
Is it any wonder why he can lift me up so easily? And No that picture isn't Coach, but I felt like posting it here.

I found this on Lolsnaps this morning and just had to post it. Wish they also showed wrestling too. Not the professional stuff, but the college and high school stuff with singlets. That's another one that could fit it in with the picture. Just draw singlets on the guys.